One of the most discussed topics during consultation is picking a song for the first dance. I can remember how much work it was when Talar (my wife) and I had to choose one. Every road trip was a song listening marathon. A constant "next/skip" and the occasional "hum...maybe." We were no different than most. For couples this is one of the very few things that is just for them. You want the song to have meaning - lyrically, emotionally and spiritually. It's the only time the c